This is my tribute to fathers, all of whom I have known
and whom I have loved.

Herman Lester Welch, my father (daddy) a man of quite strength, dignity, hard working, honest, and trustworthy. The best way I know to describe my dad is to tell you who his pall bearers were at his funeral. He had quite a diverse group of men who all knew him and loved him. There was a judge, a public official, a family friend, a man who dug ditches for a living, an elder in our church and a man who had just been released from prison. All of these men knew and loved my dad, he was an avid reader and would devour everything he could get to read. He was self taught as he had a 4th grade education. He never said anything unless he meant it. He did not gossip and he worked hard to raise 7 kids on his salary and education. He put up with no "bull" and yet he had a sense of humor that I failed to appreciate until he was gone. 

Herman Lester Welch
Oct. 29, 1919-April 15, 1978 
I love you daddy and miss you still so much.
Kat


The next fathers I want to talk about are my sons, Michael and Paul. I have watched these two children of mine grow into young men with families of their own.
 
 

John Michael

Michael has Zachary John who will be 6 in August. Mike is one of those rare fathers that thinks he cannot leave the house unless Zach is with him. They do everything together, from playing baseball, basketball, fishing, just exploring. He is such a good father and I am so very proud of the way he takes care of Zach. They are a team, yet Zach knows when Mike says, "Stop" that it is time to "stop." They will be friends for life as well as father and son. 
Thank you Michael for being such a good dad
and taking such good care of my only grandson. 
I love you both dearly...

Mom
 
 

Paul Brandon

My youngest son Paul will be a great dad as his daughter continues to grow. You see, Paul was one of those "teenagers" and I thought he would drive me insane before he grew up. So there is not a lot Kaya will get away with since Paul invented most of it. ;-)  Paul is such a tender father, I have always felt it was harder to be a father to a girl than a boy. He does everything for her, just like Theresa does. Since she was born, he feeds her, changed her, bathed her and she goes with him some afternoons to play cards so mommy can rest. He is teaching her such wonderful manners that when I accidently said "stupid" in front of her, she said, "That's not nice grinnie."  Paul is a wonderful father and husband to Theresa, as well as a wonderful son. 
I am proud of you Pauly and I love you so much. 
If I have been half the parent to you two that you are to your children, 
then I did ok...
Mom 
 
 

Jason H. Martin Jr.

Of course the next father I want to talk about is Jason, my husband of 18 years. Jason is not my children's natural father, and I find that phrase rather weird, as he is the most "natural" father I have ever seen. He treats the boys as if they were biologically his. There is no "step" parent talk around here. Jason married me with these children, and since he had never been married, he got quite a package when he took us on. But the boys adore him, and he is those grand babies' PaPoo. He loves them to death. Every month there is a certain amount of money that comes out of his paycheck for their education. Sadly, right after Jason and I married I had a bad pap smear and subsequently had to have surgery that did not allow me to give Jason children. This has always saddened me, but he tells me we have two wonderful boys and two beautiful grandchildren, so what else do we need. This perhaps may sound a little, well not the place for it, but my youngest son calls his biological father, "the sperm donor" and he means it. He loves Jason with all his heart. 
I could not have asked for a better father for my children.
 
 

Tim, Rob, and Todd
As a footnote to this, I would just like to say "Happy Father's Day" to some guys I think are doing a terrific job of being "daddy". My nephews Tim, Rob and Todd, Lord knows when you guys were growing up, I never thought I would live to see the day that you would be changing diapers, giving cough medicine, and dragging kids around. There are 4 girls and 1 boy between them, you guys are doing great!
Keep up the good work. 
I love you and your children...
Aunt Kat


Photograph by Ann Geddes